Ladies, is lying and giving a guy false expectation better than being straightforward?

say, you don't want to see a guy anymore. you'd rather tell him nice things and say you'd like to meet him again but you don't, rather than, saying that you're not interested to him?Ladies, is lying and giving a guy false expectation better than being straightforward?
that is one thing being passionate the hard way.You could always wish you had the ghats to tell a guy you don't want to see him anymore but wishes ain't horses.no matter how bad a guy hurts me,i don't wanna pay him back painfully because i always think that i might need his help one day and so i tend to accommodate him until it becomes less painful to break it off.It is easier for a guy or a gal to suggest to his/her partner to tell him/her off if the relationship can't work than for the one to break the news.Ladies, is lying and giving a guy false expectation better than being straightforward?
tell him to get lost, he'll get over it.
well I would probably pretend dump and be busy all the time and he insists and annoys me I would tell him then that I am not interested and please stop calling me and contacting for ever...and tell him taht he shoudln't be upset because it's not him it's you and he will find someone else...