Thursday, February 4, 2010

Does porn create false expectations about what women's orgasms are like?

In the movies they're hooting and hollering as if their toes are on fire. Come on. No one really makes love like that, it's all over the top acting and it's fake as hell. But a lot of guys they see those movies and think that's what women are supposed to sound like in bed.Does porn create false expectations about what women's orgasms are like?
Yes! I hate that my bf always wants me to act like girls in porn I hate it. It completely turns me off when he complainsDoes porn create false expectations about what women's orgasms are like?
Some women do do that, but I guess some men wouldn't know that. I don't understand why people are under this impression that men don't understand the difference between porn and real life. Of course teenage boys may be confused about this because they are probably inexperienced. When having sex with a woman, if she is behaving this way then common sense would say she is about to orgasm, really enjoying it, or faking perhaps. But either, it's positive feedback. The ';acting'; in porn is no different than movies or TV shows. Who wants to watch porn where the woman seems bored? The reaction of the people having sex is as important as the sex, in porn and real life.
Yup, indeedy.





Of course, it's not that aspect of it that bothers me, because seeing someone get super passionate is a turn-on, even if you know in your rational mind that it's all acting that she's getting paid for. What bothers me the most is that these responses don't reflect the real way that the majority of women get aroused and orgasm (i.e. even with no foreplay and no clitoral stimulation, she'll be writhing around in ecstasy after five thrusts).





But hey, all porn is fantasy, and it's up to the viewers to be responsible and realize that, and to not hold their lovers up to such unfair standards.
I think you may have a point there. Guys (particularly teenage guys) have preconceived notion that a woman's orgasm is supposed to be ';wet n' wild.'; But on the other hand, these movies wouldn't sell as well if sex weren't wild and exciting. I guess that you have to hope that these teenage guys will get the hint once they've been with a woman that it's OK that the orgasm isn't over the top.
lol. when i do have one. i play a game where i try to hold in everything and act as if i never had one. of course it never works XD. those women are faking so much. i only watch it for that bad acting and terribly fake orgasms. i don't know why guys would even think we do that...i just shake a bit and moan a tiny bit. but it still feels wonderful and as powerful as any other. and im not trying to be sexy... im being very serious. those orgasms are very fake. i wish men like that would know a little more about a REAL orgasm happening to REAL women.
to be very honest..its all fake, unfortunately for boys out there...nor does women sound or behave like that and neither do they look like that...being a girl my slef i would say its all made of make-up that glow in their body and that beautiful flawless body parts...its totally making boys want what doesn't exist...





and really real life women are still allot hotter than any of the 30 times cut and edited clips...:)
It's a movie, no different than the stuff from Hollywood showing all kinds of unreal events.
I'm so happy someone noticed this! I feel like I need to put on a show sometimes but that only makes the real thing hard to come by!
yes sir.
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